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Restoring Harmony in your home in 90 days - you don't need to send your teenager away to residential treatment

Your family is in crisis. You have tried everything. Nothing has worked.

This is the programme built for exactly that situation.

Restoring Harmony is a private 90-day therapeutic coaching programme for parents living with extreme teenage behaviour — aggression, self-harm, school refusal, difficult school behaviour, absconding, anti-social behaviour, and substance misuse. Designed for families who have been through therapy, mental health services, medication, residential treatment and every intervention available, and are still in daily crisis.

 

You do not need to send your teenager away. You need someone to work with you — inside your family system — and shift what is actually driving the behaviour.

​​Restoring Harmony in 90 days is for you if...

  • Your teenager's aggression has escalated to the point where you feel unsafe in your own home

  • You have found evidence of self-harm and you do not know what to do without making it worse

  • Your teenager has not been to school in weeks or months and every intervention has failed

  • You have called the police on your own child and the guilt of that is crushing you

  • You have been through mental health service, therapy, residential treatment — and you are still here

  • Siblings are affected. Your relationship is under strain. Your home does not feel safe.

  • You are holding everything together at work and falling apart behind closed doors

  • You love your teenager. You are also frightened of them. And the shame of that feeling keeps you silent.

  • Your teenager is absconding, using drugs and alcohol, shutting you out completely, or triggering daily crisis in the home.

You have not failed. You have been trying to solve a system problem with individual solutions. That is why nothing has stuck. This programme addresses the system.

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​​What Makes Restoring Harmony Different?​

This is not another parenting course.

 

Restoring Harmony is highly specialised therapeutic coaching — guided by a systemic lens — designed specifically for families in active crisis. Every session is tailored. Every plan is built around what is actually happening in your home.

 

The difference is this: every other intervention you have tried has focused on your teenager. Medical professionals workwith your teenager. School works with your teenager. Therapist talks to your teenager.

 

I work with you.

 

Because the most powerful lever in your family is not your teenager. It is the system they are living inside every day. When that system shifts, the behaviour shifts — often faster than anyone expects.

By the end of the programme, you will regain your confidence as a  parent who understands what your teenager needs beneath their behaviour. Your home will feel stable again. You will know how to respond when things become difficult without losing your sense of authority or connection. Instead of feeling overwhelmed and anxious,  You will feel capable of guiding your child through this stage of life.

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​​What’s included over 90 days?

 

You’ll get clarity and support to shift the patterns that aren’t working in your home. We’ll work together to gently shift the patterns and stuck points that are creating stress. You’ll receive practical guidance to change the dynamics that feel overwhelming right now.

This includes:

 

  • Two extended deep dive sessions: A thorough mapping of your family system — the history, the patterns, the root causes. This is where we build your family blueprint and understand what is actually driving the crisis.

 

  • Thirteen private therapeutic parenting coaching sessions: Weekly 1:1 therapeutic parenting coaching combining structure, strategy, and emotional containment. Tailored to what is happening in your home that week — not a generic curriculum.

 

  • Ongoing personal support via email and WhatsApp between sessions: When something happens at 9pm on a Tuesday, you are not alone and you are not waiting until next week.

  • Custom tools and interactive exercises: Built around your unique family system — not generic worksheets. Practical, immediately applicable, and grounded in 30 years of frontline experience.  

 

  • Full access to the Harmony On-Call digital resource library to support your learning, application, and long-term integration at home.

  • 90 Days of Post-Programme Aftercare: Six additional coaching calls after the core programme ends. Because transformation needs time to embed — and we do not abandon you at day 91.

Support does not end at 90 days. We match the pace of your family system so that change becomes sustainable, not just temporary.

What Changes Over 90 Days?

 

Within the first month, many families notice a sharp drop in conflict and aggression. By week six, calm routines begin returning to the home. Parents report feeling more united, teenagers become more emotionally regulated, and for many, school attendance and sibling connection improve significantly.

 

This isn’t surface change. It’s a structural reset, guided by the TTP Method I’ve developed through years of clinical work with families in crisis.

 

You’ll learn how to:

 

  • Stop the escalation cycle and reduce the risk of harm

 

  • Identify and shift the emotional dynamics beneath your child’s behaviour

 

  • Rebuild emotional safety, trust, and healthy boundaries

 

  • Lead your family confidently through high-stress moments

 

  • Respond to outbursts with containment instead of collapse

 

  • Establish long-term communication tools that allow for growth, not just survival

 

  • Post-programme support that matches your pace

Every family moves through change differently. That’s why support doesn’t end at 90 days.

 

When the core programme ends, you’ll continue to receive 90 days of aftercare including six additional therapeutic coaching calls. This ensures that momentum continues and stability holds, even through inevitable challenges.

 

We don’t rush transformation. We match the pace of your system so change becomes sustainable.​​​

Your investment

 

Restoring Harmony is not a course. It is an investment in your family's safety, connection, and future.

 

Investment is discussed on your free Strategy Call, where we will look at your family's specific situation and build a plan that makes sense for where you are. Some families require the full 90-day intensive. Others may need a shorter or longer journey. We work together to determine what is right for your system.

One year of weekly therapy costs more than this programme — and leaves you without the tools, the between-session support, or the family system work that creates lasting change.

If you have more questions about the programme, our FAQ section offers detailed answers about the programme, what to expect, and how it works.

Finally get your home back — for good

 

You’ve tried therapy. School interventions. Parenting courses. Medications. Residential programmes. Podcasts. Books. Nothing has stuck.

 

You are still living in a daily emergency. Maybe your teen is harming themselves. Maybe they’re threatening violence. Maybe your home no longer feels safe. You love your child, but the situation is unmanageable. You are walking into work looking composed but falling apart behind closed doors.

 

It’s not because you’ve failed. It’s because what you’re facing isn’t about isolated behaviour. It’s about a system in panic mode. 

 

And systems can be rebuilt. You do not need to send your teenager away to make that happen. You need a map. You need structure. You need a safe space where the real problems can be named and solved.

 

That’s what Restoring Harmony offers.

Still not sure this can work?​ 

This is a real story from a family who thought they were beyond help. Watch here

FAQ restoring harmony

Frequently asked questions

A Traumatic event nearly broke the family. After a  year of trying everything but nothing worked, they found their harmony

I was really struggling to be honest! Some things happened and I lost all of my confidence. I made mistakes and didn't know how to get back on track.

 

BUT after just a couple of sessions with Pei-I, I’m feeling soooo much better. I’m really positive about the future instead of worrying all of the time. For me, the best thing has been the clear strategies you’ve provided.

And I can see the strategies you’ve given me are working already!! After just a couple of weeks things have improved massively. I’m so happy I found you and so excited for the future!! This is exactly what we needed. I know we will all be less stressed and happier because of the work we’ve been doing together Pei-I - we already are (but I’m not letting you go anywhere just yet ).

 

Anyone who is thinking of working with you should absolutely DO IT. You’re extremely knowledgeable in this area and definitely a talented coach. I feel like to always listen but equally have a lot of amazing insights to share. I love that in a coach.  Mum from England

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