Testimonials - I help families when No one else can
From walking on eggshells everyday, daily conflicts and at brink of breaking up to harmony in 90 days
The hardest moments for us, when our teen was having daily explosive anger outbursts, slamming doors, hitting us, throwing stuff, screaming at us. Her younger brother was scared to be around her when this happened, but at the
same time, he was mimicking her behaviour and repeating it. There was no peace or calm in the house and we were walking on eggshells trying not to get our teen riled up or upset her because we were trying to avoid the
explosion.
It was very stressful, very tense and was clearly impacting our son. But it also impacted our relationship and I was at my wits end ready to split up.
We quickly realised within the second week of working with Pei-I that when we implemented everything she suggested our lives were getting easier and calmer and we had hope for living in harmony. We were getting
cooperation but we also getting affection.
Life is much easier, no more eggshells, children are happier and calmer, and we are able to connect more with them. We have learnt that we have to be more patient, more positive, that we have to be the teacher, but that we also have manage our expectations.
We are able to go on a car ride together. We are able to have a family day out which we weren’t able to do before. We are able go on a family holiday together now.
If you say you have tried everything, but is it the right things? It’s not the Pei-I way. Because her way works.
KYLA & SHANE
When Pei-I first worked with me and my son, we had lots of school refusals, almost daily arguments and a lot of anger in our house. During our sessions, she was able to help me realise we had a complete imbalance of who was really in control and how to put better boundaries in place. She has given me lots of strategies on how to deal with his behaviour and also reminded me not to lose my own identity. My son now goes to school and life is much calmer and I’m teaching him how to regulate, through my own behaviour. All of this was done in a friendly, non-judgmental way and I can’t thank Pei-I enough for all her insight, support and enthusiasm for us to succeed and be a happier family.
I just wanted to thank you so very much for all your help for our family. My family is in a much better place now than when we first spoke. I’ve got strategies in place and will work hard to avoid too many relapses! It’s been a real pleasure to work with you –you’ve helped so much and I will do my best to continue the good practice and advice you’ve given to both of us.
Mum, England Jan 2023
Years of stress with supporting businesses while running the home and family, left me burnt out BEFORE the pandemic. Unable to support teenagers through the pandemic left me at the end of my tether, not knowing what to do, who to listen to or even, after following the wrong paths, who to turn to. I often felt like I should know what I wanted to do but could no longer trust my own judgement.
In just 5 weeks, I have a reasonably healthy relationship with my younger teen because I keep focused on that. The relationship with my older teen feels like it has started a positive and real pathway to healing.
Recognising I need expert help was not a problem – finding someone like Pei-I felt like a gift, I have experienced others who claim to be parenting experts yet were almost incompetently unable to tune into the complexities of my situation, causing untold damage on so many levels. Pei-I is a rare diamond - alert, listening and compassionate which, combined with her experience, commitment and passion for families working is invaluable. Plus – she’s fun to work with!
Parents in USA Nov 2022
When we started parenting coaching with Pei-I my husband was sceptical for we have taken many parenting classes, training and self-help groups before as a couple and separately and none of them had a long lasting effect. But since my child got emotional easily and the father and son relationship was not smooth, I still wanted to give it another chance.
Pei-I helped us to identify me and my husband's different parenting styles, our root problems, strength, shared goals, and motivations, which not only helped us to understand our situation better but also gave us confidence in parenting. She helped us to develop realistic parenting goals and explicit instructions to implement parenting strategies, and the best part is that we can consult with her anytime outside our meeting via text or email if we have any questions or concerns. After a few weeks working with her, our family life is much calmer and everybody including grandparents feel the child "becomes so sweet".
Mum in UK Jan 2023
I was feeling really lost due to a traumatic experience that had happened to my pre-teen. I had lost my confidence in parenting. 5 weeks on, I absolutely have a better connection with my now teenager, plus the added benefit of the whole family being calmer and more connected.
I would go as far as saying doing this course has had a positive impact on my business as I’m less stressed in general and I’m not getting interrupted or distracted as much as I was before.
Pei-I is fantastic at creating a safe space that feels completely confidential. As a family, we’ve all put that traumatic experience behind us now, put better boundaries in place, and really feel like we’re living the harmonious family life Pei-I promised!
WHAT Families SAY
From years of seperating the children to having a harmornious family dinner 1st time in years. It only took 1 session to make it happen...
