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Testimonials
From walking on eggshells everyday, daily conflicts and at brink of breaking up to harmony in 90 days. Parents.UK 2025
The hardest moments for us, when our teen was having daily explosive anger outbursts, slamming doors, hitting us, throwing stuff, screaming at us. Her younger brother was scared to be around her when this happened, but at the
same time, he was mimicking her behaviour and repeating it. There was no peace or calm in the house and we were walking on eggshells trying not to get our teen riled up or upset her because we were trying to avoid the
explosion.
It was very stressful, very tense and was clearly impacting our son. But it also impacted our relationship and I was at my wits end ready to split up.
We quickly realised within the second week of working with Pei-I that when we implemented everything she suggested our lives were getting easier and calmer and we had hope for living in harmony. We were getting
cooperation but we also getting affection.
Life is much easier, no more eggshells, children are happier and calmer, and we are able to connect more with them. We have learnt that we have to be more patient, more positive, that we have to be the teacher, but that we also have manage our expectations.
We are able to go on a car ride together. We are able to have a family day out which we weren’t able to do before. We are able go on a family holiday together now.
If you say you have tried everything, but is it the right things? It’s not the Pei-I way. Because her way works.
Mum in UsA 2025
I was feeling hopeless with my teen. The family was hanging on by a thread. We had tried therapy, residential treatment, read dozens of books trying to figure out what to do and nothing was helping.
My teen was aggressive outburst, destroying property, threatening to hurt himself, drug and alcohol use, and extreme disrespect.
Since working with Pei-I, every day there are challenges but they are not as extreme and continue to get better.
The very best thing about the experience of working with Pei-I so far is her Empathy! I felt like I was understood and that she had a lot of empathy for my son as well. I knew he was hurting but didn’t know how to help, and the therapist and other do-gooders suggest sending him away. I knew in my heart that wasn’t going to fix the problem and I truly didn’t want that. Pei-I was the first professional I talked to that actually helped address the root cause.
Now, I don’t feel like I walk on eggshells every day and can relax in my own home. We are starting to interact more positively as a family.
Pei-I is Encouraging, positive, supportive. I wish I would have found Pei-I sooner! We have hope in our family again, to not just survive but thrive and enjoy it.
From a financial perspective, I was nervous to send the money, not knowing if it was legitimate or what the outcome would be. It seemed expensive but when I added up the costs of years or therapy, treatment centres, legal fees, this would have saved me money if I had started here. Also, if you’re a parent in this situation, you know you would spend any amount to turn things around.
I genuinely look forward to my sessions with Pei-I and her uplifting and encouraging personality. I don’t think many professionals have the experience in dealing with these situations, nor the same approach to address the root cause of the behaviours. She “got it” right off the bat. I stopped feeling so alone and utterly helpless.
In between our sessions, she was always a text away and even though I was in the US and she was in the UK, she was always quick to respond and offer solutions to whatever challenges I was facing.
This is not easy, and you will have to take a look in the mirror and address your own behaviours and contributions to the problems. It has been effective and I’m seeing changes slowly but surely in the right direction after 2 years of hopelessness.
Parent in Uk
When Pei-I first worked with me and my son, we had lots of school refusals, almost daily arguments and a lot of anger in our house. During our sessions, she was able to help me realise we had a complete imbalance of who was really in control and how to put better boundaries in place. She has given me lots of strategies on how to deal with his behaviour and also reminded me not to lose my own identity. My son now goes to school and life is much calmer and I’m teaching him how to regulate, through my own behaviour. All of this was done in a friendly, non-judgmental way and I can’t thank Pei-I enough for all her insight, support and enthusiasm for us to succeed and be a happier family.
I just wanted to thank you so very much for all your help for our family. My family is in a much better place now than when we first spoke. I’ve got strategies in place and will work hard to avoid too many relapses! It’s been a real pleasure to work with you –you’ve helped so much and I will do my best to continue the good practice and advice you’ve given to both of us.
Mum, England Jan 2023
Years of stress with supporting businesses while running the home and family, left me burnt out BEFORE the pandemic. Unable to support teenagers through the pandemic left me at the end of my tether, not knowing what to do, who to listen to or even, after following the wrong paths, who to turn to. I often felt like I should know what I wanted to do but could no longer trust my own judgement.
In just 5 weeks, I have a reasonably healthy relationship with my younger teen because I keep focused on that. The relationship with my older teen feels like it has started a positive and real pathway to healing.
Recognising I need expert help was not a problem – finding someone like Pei-I felt like a gift, I have experienced others who claim to be parenting experts yet were almost incompetently unable to tune into the complexities of my situation, causing untold damage on so many levels. Pei-I is a rare diamond - alert, listening and compassionate which, combined with her experience, commitment and passion for families working is invaluable. Plus – she’s fun to work with!
Parents in USA Nov 2022
When we started parenting coaching with Pei-I my husband was sceptical for we have taken many parenting classes, training and self-help groups before as a couple and separately and none of them had a long lasting effect. But since my child got emotional easily and the father and son relationship was not smooth, I still wanted to give it another chance.
Pei-I helped us to identify me and my husband's different parenting styles, our root problems, strength, shared goals, and motivations, which not only helped us to understand our situation better but also gave us confidence in parenting. She helped us to develop realistic parenting goals and explicit instructions to implement parenting strategies, and the best part is that we can consult with her anytime outside our meeting via text or email if we have any questions or concerns. After a few weeks working with her, our family life is much calmer and everybody including grandparents feel the child "becomes so sweet".
Mum in UK Jan 2023
I was feeling really lost due to a traumatic experience that had happened to my pre-teen. I had lost my confidence in parenting. 5 weeks on, I absolutely have a better connection with my now teenager, plus the added benefit of the whole family being calmer and more connected.
I would go as far as saying doing this course has had a positive impact on my business as I’m less stressed in general and I’m not getting interrupted or distracted as much as I was before.
Pei-I is fantastic at creating a safe space that feels completely confidential. As a family, we’ve all put that traumatic experience behind us now, put better boundaries in place, and really feel like we’re living the harmonious family life Pei-I promised!
I was feeling hopeless with my teen. Aggressive outburst, destroying property, threatening to hurt himself, drug and alcohol use, and extreme disrespect. The family was hanging on by a thread. We had tried therapy, residential treatment, read dozens of books trying to figure out what to do and nothing was helping.
Working with Pei-I made me feel like I was understood and that she had a lot of empathy for my son as well. I knew he was hurting but didn’t know how to help, and the therapist and other do-gooders suggest sending him away. I knew in my heart that wasn’t going to fix the problem and I truly didn’t want that. Pei-I was the first professional I talked to that actually helped address the root cause.
I don’t feel like I walk on eggshells every day and can relax in my own home. We are starting to interact more positively as a family.
I wish I would have found Pei-I sooner! We have hope in our family again, to not just survive but thrive and enjoy it.
Restoring Harmony in 90 days did what £200K couldn' t do
Parent from USA
WHAT Families SAY
Teen Aggression to happiness
We adopted our son when he was a baby. Since his adoption, he has brought so much happiness into our life. However, things started to get difficult when he was in primary school. He wasn't listening to our instructions and had so many outburst of anger that we were struggling to understand. He shouted at us when things didn't go his way, and became really destructive both at home and at school. Whilst we always strived to provide him with stability and love, it felt nothing we did was helping our son. I could see that my son was unhappy and hurting. It was also hurting our family.
Approaching Rainbow was a difficult decision to make for us as parents. It felt somehow that we failed as parents. However, Pei-I is an amazing parenting consultant. She listened to our concerns, helped us to see strengths when there was little; she invited us to be part of the solution, offered practical and emotional support, and helped us feel confident and hopeful with the strategies we were trying out at home. She didn't just help us to be the best parents we can be but also helped us recognise our own strengths, the importance of self care and using people around us to help carry us through challenging time.
In a very short space of time, we could see the change in our son's behaviour. He was less angry and was more responsive to our parenting and boundaries setting. He was able to recognise his feelings a bit more and communicate them. As parents, we learned and adapted strategies to listen to him, comfort him when he was angry. We learned how to respond to him reassuringly even when we didn't know what was going on. We learned that it's ok not to be know-it-all parents. We now pay more attention to the desires and needs behind his behaviour. This allowed us to rethink what we were doing.
Pei-I had given us the tools that we feel as parents are extremely valuable. We recognise that we will have challenges going forward, but as parents we feel confident that we can manage whatever comes our way. We are so much happier as a family and this by far is the best investment that we have made for our family.
I genuinely look forward to my sessions with Pei-I and her uplifting and encouraging personality. I don’t think many counselors have the experience in dealing with these situations, nor the same approach to therapy to address the root cause of the behaviours. She “got it” right off the bat. I stopped feeling so alone and utterly helpless. In between our sessions, she was always a text away and even though I was in the US and she was in the UK, she was always quick to respond and offer solutions to whatever challenges I was facing.
