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About Pei-I :
It’s my experience of being parented by two very successful but stressed-out parents back in Taiwan that has made me where and who I am today.
Families usually find me when they are exhausted, worried, and out of ideas. Not because they have not tried, but because they have been carrying too much for too long.
My name is Pei I. I am the founder of Rainbow Parenting Practice, and the clincial director of the Therapetuic Parenting Coaching Service and Rainbow Family Therapy Service. For more than 30 years, I have supported families who feel stuck in cycles they cannot seem to break, even after trying every strategy, therapist, or intervention available to them.
Many parents come to me feeling blamed, judged, or told they are doing something wrong. In reality, they are doing their best in incredibly complex situations.
I am a UKCP accredited family therapist, parenting strategist, and crisis calibrator. More than anything, I am someone who stays with families when things feel overwhelming.
My work is built on one core belief.
You do not need more advice. You need someone who understands what is really happening and walks alongside you while you put things back together.
The families I work with are not looking for quick fixes. They are living with violence, shutdowns, self-harm, explosive conflict, school refusal, or a teenager who has completely withdrawn. Some are facing decisions about separation, school removal, or external intervention. Many are running on very little sleep and hope.
This work is not about learning another parenting technique.
It is about restoring safety, trust, and stability within the family.
I created the TTP Method after years of working within traditional therapeutic models and seeing where they often fall short for families in crisis, especially those with teenagers. The method is designed to help parents understand their family system, rebuild connection, and stop destructive patterns before they become generational.
Whether you connect with me through a Family Breakthrough Consultation Call, The Harmony House, or my private 90 day Restoring Harmony programme, my role remains the same.
To see what others have missed and help you guide your family back toward calm, connection, and a sense of safety again.
Who I Work With
Families often come to me when it feels like no one else knows what to do next.
For three decades, I have worked with families in some of the most complex and high stress situations, often after multiple services and professionals have already been involved.
I have supported families where aggression has become part of daily life, where schools and services feel at a loss, and where parents are frightened about what the future might hold for their child and their family.
Alongside my clinical work, I have held leadership and consultative roles, supporting frontline teams and helping shape whole system responses to trauma and challenging behaviour.
I specialise in supporting (This is not an exhausitve list):
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Families living with domestic abuse, violence, addiction, or intergenerational trauma
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Teens in crisis or on the edge of care, refusing school, running away, or becoming involved in risky or exploitative situations
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Parents overwhelmed by teen to parent aggression, antisocial behaviour, or emotional shutdown
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Children and teens who have experienced significant trauma and parents unsure how to rebuild trust
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Families close to separation, placement breakdown, or legal involvement
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Foster carers, adoptive parents, and kinship carers navigating complex attachment and identity needs
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Teens struggling with anxiety, depression, self-harm, or emotional distress where therapy has not helped
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Neurodivergent families raising teens with autism, ADHD, or complex needs
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Families navigating OCD, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, eating disorders, and complex trauma
What I Believe
I believe in hope, even when a family cannot feel it yet.
With the right understanding, timing, and support, change does not have to take years. I have seen families move from crisis to connection faster than they ever thought possible.
You do not have to do this alone.
Pei-I's Qualification
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MSc in Childhood Studies
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MSc in Psychological Studies
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MSc in Psychoanalytical Thinking: Skills to work with children and young people
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MSc in Family and Systemic Psychotherapy, UKCP Registered
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Member of Association of Family Therapy and Systemic Practice
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Trainee membership for British Psychoanalytical Council
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Senior member of The Association for Psychodynamic Practice and Counselling in Organisational Settings
What can Pei-I help you with
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Adolescent behaviour difficulties
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Family relationship difficulties
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Adolescent and Adult mental health issues
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Parenting issues
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Domestic violence and abuse
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The effects of trauma, abuse or/and neglect
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Fostering, adoption, kinship care and the needs of looked after children
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Adult behaviour difficulties
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Separation, divorce and step-family life
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Self-harm
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Drug and alcohol misuse
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The effects of trauma